Everyone is afraid of something—and not usually just one something, but a lot of somethings. The list of common phobias is extensive.
Reactions to fear
Avoidance
Fear can be paralyzing or motivating depending on how you handle it. Personally, I am afraid of spiders. I don’t care if they aren’t poisonous, there is something just inherently evil about something with that many legs creeping about my house. My common reaction to spiders is avoidance and delegation. In college, my friend Naomi was my designated spider killer (and I kept her quite busy). After college, my roommate and I had a deal. She killed the eight legged creatures and I disposed of the lesser legged intruders. It was a great partnership.
Procrastination
There is also a great deal of fear wrapped up in my writing. This manifests as procrastination. What if I say the wrong thing? What if someone disagrees with me? Will people expect me to have all of my life together and be disappointed when they find out I have a basketful of faults that I struggle with every day? If I let it, these fears will keep me from writing. They cause me to delay posts my heart is begging me to share and they turn every chapter that I write for publishing into a spiritual battleground.
Motivation
My greatest and most personal fear is personal harm. I believe a lot of people share this fear or something like it and that it is paralyzing us in our efforts to reach the needy of this world with the power of Christ. However, I believe that my fear of being raped is part of what motivates me to fight on behalf of the thousands of women and children that face that reality every day in the multi-billion dollar sex industry. The Lord has given me an enormous burden and passion to help these souls, in part, because I am so afraid of becoming a victim myself.
Control
When Jesus visited the Gadarenes in Mark chapter 5, he had just performed an amazing miracle. He had cast out a legion of demons from a man that had been so tormented by them that he was forever crying out and cutting himself. Any attempt to restrain him had failed. So the people of the town avoided him as he roamed the graveyard and mountains near the city. Jesus came along and had compassion on the man. He cast out the demons who then entered a herd of pigs causing them to run into the sea to their deaths.
You would expect the people to be angry at their loss of livestock and income at such a turn of events, but that isn’t what the Bible says happened. It says that when the witnesses to what happened told the other townspeople, they were afraid and begged Jesus to leave their region. I’ve always wondered at that. It would seem that if they weren’t angry at him for the loss of the pigs that they would be grateful that a legion of demons had been sent away from this neighbor of theirs, and by nature of his proximity to their families and homes, had been afflicting them as well. But instead of offering their thanks and praise, they ran Jesus out of town.
Results of letting fear rule
Recently have I started to see this story in a new light. I realized people are afraid of what they can’t control and what they don’t understand. Things like homelessness, human trafficking, divorcees, single moms, low income families. These problems don’t have easy answers. Dealing with people in difficult circumstances can be draining, costly and even dangerous. So instead of showing them the love of Jesus and letting loose the power of the Holy Spirit in our hearts as we minister to them, we turn away, avert our eyes, come up with excuses not to help, turn the channel on the news broadcast, or even blame them for being in such a mess. We do what the people of the Gadarenes did—we ask Jesus to leave us alone.
What are you afraid of?
So I wonder—what are you afraid of? What is it that you feel motivated by the Holy Spirit to do, but that you aren’t sure what might happen if you try? Is there something you’ve always wanted to attempt, but never felt like you were qualified or the time was right? Jesus wants to do amazing things through us to change our lives and those in our communities. We have to let Him work through our fear. We have to invite Him into the mess and let His Spirit cast out the inner demons keeping us trapped in complacency.
Face your fears with Jesus
Let Jesus bring life and healing into your fears. Can you imagine what other miracles the people of that town missed out on because they were afraid? Don’t be like them. Face your fears and let Jesus have His way with them.
Great post. I think it’s true. We’re afraid of what we don’t understand. Great reminder.
Thank you Tammy!
I really enjoyed your blot post!
Over the past few months I have been praying and planning to start a ministry in my youth group.
It’s called the John 13:34 ministry, and the goal is to make teens feel more welcome at our youth group,to love like Jesus did.
I’ve worked on it for months, but the fear of telling other people about what God has put on my heart has stumped me for a long time.
I don’t know why but I was stalling and didn’t see it as being afraid, but now I know.
Now I need to pray to God to help me through this.
(I love you most infinity the end I won for today!)
Oh Brooke! I love you so much and I LOVE your sweet spirit and tenderness toward Jesus and willingness to do what He asks of you. I can’t wait to hear more about this ministry God has put on your heart and how it is going! Loving others as Jesus did is something we all need to strive to do better. Thank you for sharing this!
That God will ask me to speak to groups someday….that He’ll want me to write/talk about abuse…I am afraid of things I think God might want me to do because of the trials/life experiences He’s put me through. But when I look at my life now, I am already doing things I used to be afraid of Him asking me to do! So it’s just a mean cycle that I need to break! After all, it is the deeply personal things we go through that God uses to make the most difference in others’ lives.
I used to be afraid of the same thing! I would say that God called me to write so I wouldn’t have to talk in front of people. But then He moved in my heart to do that too, and I have to say that I love it. I love connecting with people and sharing my heart and seeing in their expressions that what God has brought me through is helping them by my sharing it. I’m so glad you were brave enough to voice this fear as it shows me that God is working in your heart in this area. Perhaps you should pray about a small venue in which you can share your testimony? Break the ice a little. You never know who might need to hear what you have to say.
Donya, this has been on my mind! So many fears of failing, committing to do things, spiders (yes, me too), heights, roller coasters…. need I go on? These last two years spending and investing time in God’s word is directing me closer to my Savior Jesus Christ. Believing instead of doubt and fear. This journey began about 2 years ago and I pray daily for His strength and extra gust of wind from the Holy Spirit to confort me as I may live boldly and humbly in Christ!!
It has been such a joy to watch your transformation over these last few years Debbie! I remember Brittany being so excited when you started coming to church regularly and now you are leading others in deepening their walks with Christ! I count it a privilege to know you. You are a blessing to me…always so kind an encouraging. I can’t wait to see how God uses you over the next two years!